7 Romantic Gestures for Valentine’s Day

Do you get stuck on what to get your sweetheart? Wondering how you’ll show your one true love how much you treasure them? Now, you could do the usual—chocolates, some little underthings, and a dozen or more roses all presented while at a favorite prix fixe table with the appropriate amount of wine pairings. Or you can show that you are in this for the long-haul by going the distance with a romantic gesture. Whether grandiose or a more intimate spin on the classics, here are seven ways to show your love this Valentine’s Day, and beyond.

1. Get Dancing

If it feels like you were made to move and your partner is more the sway-a-bit-off-beat type then you’ll want to perfect your dance moves—especially if there’s a first dance in your immediate future. Sign up for a series of ballroom dancing classes. Fred Astaire Dance Studios and equally marquee Arthur Murray have outposts nationwide. Or splurge on private dance class at home for the pair of you that way no one will notice the two left feet. BetterSway offers online classes.

2. Arrange a Flash Mob

File this under: Big Surprise Gesture. Step one is to settle on a date to pull off the surprise, step two is to nail down a dance vibe, and step three entails recruiting your pals to pull it off. Teach them some simple and coordinated choreography, add a streamlined dress code (all in blue Ts, for example) and practice, practice, practice. Don’t forget to coordinate the start and stop moments. And make sure you have someone on stand-by to film the expression of love. If you don’t have the bandwidth to execute all the details, check out Book A Flash Mob.

3. Book a Getaway

If there was ever a name synonymous with “romantic getaway” it is Sandals Resorts, where catering to couples is the brand’s central DNA. They have endless ways to indulge your whims and help you get closer to your significant other on an unforgettable Caribbean island escape—all while exploring the region’s natural and cultural wonders. Really ramp up the romance quotient when you book the three-night romance package. Available at nearly every resort, the special package includes spa treatments and a photo session, a boat cruise, private candlelight dinner, champagne and more, plus the expected included amenities from Sandals.

4. Take a Hike

Exploring the great outdoors is another special way to get some alone time. Choose a well-loved spot or go farther afield to a set of trails that are new to you. No matter your level, you’ll be gifted with amazing natural views, cool landscapes, and lots of spots to take memorable photos. Always remain on the marked paths (for both safety and respect for the landscape) and sign-in/out as required at the trail heads.

5. Cook In

Yes, it’s expected, but a romantic dinner is a classic for a reason. It’s a time to truly sit with each other. It’s a time to truly share with each other. And it’s a time to try new things or to revisit the favorites. Turn up the heat on the romantic meal and hire a chef. This removes the juggling act of menu selection, shopping, and serving, and amplifies the special moment. Bonus: Curate a playlist to accompany your meal or pull out those question game cards and take some time to deepen your connection.

6. Adopt a Pet

For many, becoming pet parents is the first step to growing your family. Make a romantic gesture in bringing home a dog, cat, or even fish that’s primed for care. (Note: This is only a suggestion if you are on the same page about pet caring/ownership.) Many local rescue agencies offer adoption services and care education, or research options on the ASPCA site. Not ready for full-fledged parenthood? Consider fostering a pet; this option is best accessed locally.

7. Get the Heart Pumping

You know the feeling of the pitter-pat when you are around your one true love. Amp up that racing with an awesome adventure that’s geared toward getting the adrenaline pumping. Go kayaking or rock climbing, take a pickleball or yoga class together, or if you and your mate are more extreme try bungee jumping, sky diving, and white-water rafting.

Or add them on to your romantic getaway—cliff jumping or bamboo river rafting in Jamaica; surfing in Barbados or scuba diving all over the region. When you stay at Sandals, you can even get certified.